SUSAN TIPPETT BRAITHWAITE

Beyond Romance Novels: Finding Real Love

As a writer and avid reader of romance, you might expect me to recount a tale of grand romantic gestures. Yet, it’s the small, everyday acts of love that truly resonate with me. It’s in these moments that I find the essence of genuine affection. I’m calling it my everyday love language.

The Misconception of Grand Gestures

There’s a common portrayal of love in media and literature emphasising grand gestures—lavish gifts and dramatic declarations. But to me, these often feel disingenuous, even materialistic. I’ve always craved something more authentic than flowers on the brink of wilting or trinkets that gather dust.

Simple Acts; Profound Love

To me, the surprise of a coffee maker already brewing on a busy morning is a small act that says, “I understand you. I’m here for you.” Gestures like this might seem trivial, but their impact is immense. They’re reminders that love is attentive, considerate, and woven into the fabric of everyday life.

My Everyday Love Language

For me, love shines brightest in these ordinary moments. It’s in the way Jez has my back during our Halo gaming sessions, shouting, “Stay the fuck away from my Susan!” as he takes out an Elite sneaking up behind me. It’s in his simple question of how my day was, showing his genuine interest in my life.

The True Essence of Feeling Loved

So, while I might not have grand tales of romance to share, I wouldn’t trade these daily expressions of love for anything. They are constant, comforting, and deeply meaningful.

Grand Gestures or Daily Affirmations?

What about you? Do you cherish the grand romantic gesture, or do you find more meaning in the small, daily affirmations of love? Let’s share and celebrate the diverse ways we experience love in our lives.